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Last tuesday , 6 JULY 2010 ... I was informed by my aunt that my grandmother pass away ... I stunt liao ... Did u just say she pass away ?? How could it be possible ... Few days ago she just contact my mum and chat with my mum ... Are u kidding ?? Popo !! *crying* I sit down and talk to Yan and look around for my sis ... Cry , cry , cry and cry till no more tears .. Still dun understand why my grandmother will pass away ... Went home bath quickly and get ready ... When my dad reach home then straight away balik hometown , Ipoh ... I reached Ipoh's tol ngamngam 2hrs later .... Amazing ... xD Masuk pintu then go 'bai bai' popo then look at her in the coffin ... Once I see started crying again ... Stand aside and bertenang then go into living room *crying* ... My mum , grandfather and aunt all talking abt my grandmother ... My aunt say till so kesian make till I cry more ... Later went outside beside then coffin burn offerings for my grandmother ... Few of us sit there and chat and burn offerings ... Talk craps and laugh bak .. :) At night slp in living room cause feel very dirty and later 2p.m change shift to burn offerings ... Cause it can't be stop ... But my cousin din wake me up cause my aunt and mum they all burn ...

Day 2 , morning went eat then bla bla bla and reach evening ... Time to change clothes and start ceremony .. Dunno wat the ppl talking about but we just follow instructions ... Then they buka coffin and have to put in something .. Once look at my grandmother and wat the ppl say started crying again .... Later have to walk around and kneel down and walk around and all the stuff .. Got rest time , but there is alot of guest so we can onli sit at the place where we burn offerings ... Later continue again and rest again ... When most of the guest went we get to sit down and eat .. It is cooling so we off the fan then later feel hot on bak again and keep on and off ... hahaha .. Gonna spoil it !! Few minutes later continue ceremony ... There is one super tyring , have to stand and kneel down non-stop for 20 mins .. We noe the time cause my cousin count it !! xD ... Kneel down , stand up , sit down , kneel down ......... Hold the joss stick till it burn finish oso belum siap .... Did it again and again till abt 2 then we stopped ... Sudah finish ?? Yup ... YAY !! hahaha ... Then burn paper car , house and alot of things for my grandmother somewhere near the house ... If burn in the house then all mati together .. xD .... Done everything and rest , lying on the table ... Then we on songs and play games .. It is so wrong to do all this at that time .. But we adi play .... Play till kena scold my uncle that we're too noisy ... xD When beh tahan then all masuk room and slp without changing and bath ... Do u know the shirt we wear is from evening and we sweat alot ... Ewwwwwwwwwwwww !! But we adi slp .. xD

Day 3 , wake up early in the morning had breakfast and it is time to change my grandmother to a new place ... B4 that , we still have to walk few rounds and kneel down for dunno wat .... And the most terharu one .... My mum which is the eldest among the family siblings represent everyone to talk ... She said thx to popo for take caring us and ask her not to worry abt us and R.I.P , and the last way to thx popo is 'kowtow' .... My mum , dad , uncle , aunt and cousin all 'kowtow' 10 times infront of the coffin *crying* ... Later we walk , walk , walk and walk outside the hse area and sit bus to the cemetery place ..... Slept in bus *too sleepy* xD ... Reach there and get to eat pork !! xD .. All makan , makan till so nice .. hahhaa .. Then went up to the place to burn the coffin with my popo inside ... I was about to cry when see the coffin sending in to be burn but I very strong ... never cry !! xD Then went to the other place tak tau how to say and went to have lunch .... After lunch go bak popo house ... Sleep in the bus again when reach adi my sis wanted to wake me up but is too late , cause my head sudah hit to the side .. *ouch* and wake up see my cousin looking at me and laugh ... Jump over the fire thing and wash hand and face then later is done !! All rest in the living room awhile and later is time to queue-up to bath ... Wat happen next is secret ..... Then my cousin and uncle went bak left my aunt ..

Day4 , wake up to the cemetery place again to do something ... Just skip all this la ... Went to have lunch and straight away come bak KL ... That's all .. Everything is done ....